Once in a while, I tend to lose focus on my primary objective. Throughout our lives we’ve been drilled by our parents, teachers, and friends about how we should live our life. They have tried pointing us in the right direction, but what is that direction?
I have found the best way to know what real direction I should aim for, is by making a plan. My life plan is long, complexe, short, and simple at the same time. It’s not meant for anyone else to understand, although I could always describe each aspect individually.
When I sit back and take a minute to revise my life plan, I sometimes realize that i’m not going in the right direction anymore. I realize that everything I do must be in alignment with that plan. Most of the successes I’ve had in my life can be attributed to me following my plan, so why not follow it?
With that in mind, I want to make it known that part of my plan is to continue writing, another part is to move to California, and the other is to go back to being self-employed.
Being self-made isn’t just about discussing ideas and planning the ideal life. It’s also about living your ideal life and doing something about it.
In contrast to my last post, I would like to discuss a few signs of success which have helped me realize I was on the right path.
A few months ago I had a discussion with a close friend, she’s a successful entrepreneur and a huge risk-taker. On her most recent business venture, I asked her how she knew this project would work. I was curious to know what made her continue. It turns out her answers were the same as my answers in regards to jobs and every other area.
Here are the most common signs of success:
- I have a gut feeling that makes me feel good and secure.
- I’m happy and smiling every day, no matter what difficulties I encounter.
- I have positive support from my family and friends who encourage me to keep going.
- My work feels effortless while remaining challenging, interesting and fun.
- Things just seem to fall into place when I need it.
- Time goes by real quickly and I notice improvements along the way.
- My success in one area spills-over to other areas of my life.
I’m sure you’re familiar with the saying “When it rains, it pours”.
It’s important to make changes to your current situation, whether it relates to work or relationships in order to get on the path to success. Whatever it is, you have to notice the signs and do something about it.
So the question is, are you on the path to success? Have you noticed these signs recently? If not, what are you waiting for?
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